Complaining Is Arrogance

A "complaint" in the professional sense, due to dissatisfaction with a service or product is sometimes necessary in order to protect what we value. However, the complaining that I am referring to is when adults decide to hold a negative viewpoint of a given person, place, thing or idea and decide to tell us alllll about it. For example: "I can't believe he did that. He is such a jerk, and I have no idea how anybody even likes him. He has no consideration for others, and I just think that..." on...and on..... That kind of complaining is actually a form of arrogance. Because effectively what the person is saying is "My viewpoint is superior to their viewpoint, and I KNOW every detail of the situation, and would make a better choice in that situation than them." Complaining is a way to strengthen our own precarious, fearful and fragile egos at the expense of someone else. Often someone who is not within earshot, so that they don't even have the opportunity to respond to the criticism. The bible has wisdom about this in Ephesians 4:29.

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